Although you likely exercise restraint in the expression of emotion, you can share special moments of deep affinity with someone whom you consider a good friend. Generally, this is not a period of excessive social interaction, and in fact you may take distinct pleasure in spending time alone since idle conversation and transient relationships usually don?t appeal to you now. However, if your life requires you to deal with a range of people, you can act as a stabilizing force in any situation. You likely realize what is important and what is insubstantial, which can make you more efficient in everything you do.
Typically this period brings greater personal security that allows you go about your daily routine with a sense that things are in order, or at least you may accept now what you once thought was unacceptable. To get more out of this, you must apply yourself in certain ways. Family can become strengthened, as you can address chronic issues with the potential of arriving at some agreement that can minimize future conflict. Even if you can?t get others to meet you halfway, you can still come to terms within yourself with what bothers you thus resolving particular problems from your standpoint. This requires work on your part and what can make it challenging is that the long-standing issues that you may want to approach are likely less troublesome now and their urgency tends to subside.
Wherever your attention turns, you usually will get results, especially if you can focus on one interest at the exclusion of everything else. While many areas of your life can benefit from this one-pointed persistence, you can use this time most effectively to deepen your sense of security. This may mean taking action in and around your home to bring you peace of mind, but it can also involve an inner awareness of what truly sustains you, which likely is independent of people and things. Developing self-reliance not only can make a difference now but also in the future when you may need it.
Still, this period can make you appreciate the good friends and close family members who do nourish you and whom you count upon whenever necessary, as you may have the occasion to distinguish your real supporters from the apparent ones. Enjoy the steadiness of your responses now to the various curves that inevitably come your way and realize that measured reactions often emerge from an intimate awareness of the rhythm of life.
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